This memorial website was created to celebrate the life of our colleague, friend & loved one, Jim, born on November 18, 1954 and passed away on March 13, 2014.
Jim was an extraordinary person and words cannot express how much we will miss him. He was one of the most inspirational, thoughtful and generous people we've ever known. We are all better for having known him.
Please leave your Tribute below, share your memories of Jim on the Stories tab, or add your favorite photos with Jim to the Photo Gallery.
We will remember him forever.
Obituary and funeral information.
Donations may be made in Jim's memory to the Amyloidosis Foundation.
Tributes
Leave a tributeAmong the many things I miss is the comfort of knowing that I could go to him for anything - business or personal and he would lend an ear. In his more difficult days when the private equity assholes were torturing him because they knew better how to run a finance company, I was glad I could lend an ear. To this day, I don't want anything to do with PE firms.
Another year without Jim is only made tolerable by the knowledge that I am in league with so many others that have benefited from his influence and friendship.
Until next year...
As others have remarked, I go through my work and personal life comforted with the knowledge that you were my mentor, my friend and someone whose lessons remain with me to this day.
I miss you always but I will never forget you. I love you brother.
I trust you are singing with the angels and making heaven a better place - if that is even possible!
Happy trails!
love your friend
David
The Castoro Family
All of us and Stu Stanley spent thousands of hours and years together as friends and members of a band called Somethin' Sweet.
In fact we also recorded a disco record with Maryann's brother Freddie.
Although we lost touch when they moved out of NY I have thought of Jimmy many times and was hopeful that we could get the old gang together to refresh friendships.
I agree with his friend who said he was a passionate musician learning the congas, harp and as a singer. I still see his head tilt as he stared into the sky to hit the high notes.
I am glad to see that his life was full of friendship and love and wish we could have been more a part of it but I am glad that he is shining down on his family and in peace.
Jim.......as you once sang " don't take away the music...it's the only thing we got.....it's our piece of the rock"
My favorite story; Me & my band played a few holiday parties in the early days of USXL. Jim was a blues enthusiast & wanted to blow the harp on a particular song. I knew he was a great musician & told him, no problem. But he wanted to rehearse & asked where we practice. I told him we play in our drummer’s barn on Wednesday nights. I gave him the address, but didn’t expect him to really show up. Well, sure enough, the following Wednesday, there was Jim in the barn, with me & the band, working on the old John Mayall song he wanted to do. When he left, my band mates said, “What a cool guy. You say he’s a co-worker of yours?” I said, “No, he’s the president of the company I work for.” Needless to say, they were surprised.
Jim was the first person in a Senior Management position that I really got to know personally. After working at large companies, with little or no interaction with upper management, I started working at a small startup called US Express Leasing. I’d like to share some amazing story about how I started to get to know Jim but there really isn’t one. Getting to know Jim was just like getting to know any other coworker. Jim wasn’t “President of USXL – Jim McGrane”, he was Jim and his job just happened to be President of USXL. There was no pretense when interacting with him. No air of superiority or feigning concern. He was very special because he was one of us. He had his job, and you had yours. But first and foremost, he valued you as a person. And what’s most amazing is he never had to go out of his way to show you this. It was simply who he was.
Jim will be missed by so many. It’s a rare blessing to have had the opportunity to know such an intelligent, visionary and inspiring leader. Rarer still to have that same person serve as an example of how to strive to simply be a great person. To me, that was Jim.
Rest in peace Jim.
I was saddened by the news of his passing, but saddened even greater knowing the world has lost yet another kind, loving, passionate person. Eternal rest Jim...
Leave a Tribute
Among the many things I miss is the comfort of knowing that I could go to him for anything - business or personal and he would lend an ear. In his more difficult days when the private equity assholes were torturing him because they knew better how to run a finance company, I was glad I could lend an ear. To this day, I don't want anything to do with PE firms.
Another year without Jim is only made tolerable by the knowledge that I am in league with so many others that have benefited from his influence and friendship.
Until next year...
Please be patient.